1. The Busy Preparation: The 28th and 30th Days
The end of the 12th Tibetan month is a very busy time for every household. Families perform a thorough cleaning of their homes (nang gtsang-ma bzo-yag) to sweep away the old year's obstacles. There is a special tradition of purification through bathing; it is customary for the men to bathe on the 29th day, followed by the women on the 30th. This practice dates back to times when Losar was one of the few occasions for a full bath!
2. The 29th Day: Ritual Dances and "Gu-thuk" Soup
On the 28th and 29th days, many people visit monasteries to watch Cham, the sacred ritual dances performed by monks wearing impressive and sometimes scary masks.
The highlight of the 29th evening is Gu-thuk, a soup made with nine ingredients. Inside the dough balls, we hide symbols that act like "fortune cookies" to reveal a person's character. For example:
| Symbol | Tibetan | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Wool | bal | Represents a gentle character |
| Sun | nyi-ma | Represents a radiant person |
| Salt | tshwa | Playfully indicates a lazy person |
| Thief | nang-rku | A person with "long fingers" who might take things |
This evening is also about dispelling obstacles (bar-chad sel-wa) for the coming year.
3. Day 1: The Family and the Three Jewels
On the first day of Losar (Tshe-pa Chik), we wake up very early. The day begins by making offerings to the Three Jewels (dkon-mchog) at the house shrine, which has been beautifully decorated with items like "donkey ear" pastries (bong-bu'i a-mchog).
We celebrate within the family by drinking Chang-kol (boiled rice beer) and eating Dresi (sweet rice with wild sweet potato). It is also the day to wear your brand-new Chupa. Around 8:00 or 9:00 AM, many Tibetans visit their lamas and local monasteries for Chok-jal. Interestingly, some believe it is inauspicious to spend money on this first day!
4. Day 2: Visiting and Dancing
The second day is for social connection. We visit neighbors and friends to share food and drinks of all kinds. This is the time for Zhab-dro, our traditional Tibetan dances. It is a time when people spend the whole day and night singing, dancing, and sometimes even playing cards (tog-se).
5. Day 3: Prayer Flags and Smoke Offerings
On the third day, the celebration moves to the rooftops. Families raise new prayer flags (dar-chok) and wind horses (rlung-rta) on their houses. We perform Sang-sol, a smoke offering ritual using burnt herbs for purification. During this ritual, it is tradition to throw tsampa into the air while shouting, "So so! Happy, happy! May the gods win!".
6. Frequently Asked Questions
In exile communities, the main celebrations usually last three days, though in Tibet they traditionally continued until the 15th day (the full moon).
Called bong-bu'i a-mchog, these are large, hollow fried pastries (khapse) used primarily to decorate the house shrine (mchok-shem).
This might have its basis in the Buddhist principle of impermanence; because the future is always uncertain, we often use endings like sa-ma-red (most likely) instead of a definite "will".
While we aim for "pure Tibetan," we often joke that a beginner is allowed to speak Ra-ma-luk (neither goat nor sheep) while learning.