Grammar 5 min read February 2026

How to Express Desires, Needs, and Abilities in Tibetan: A Complete Guide to Modal Verbs

Dear respected and appreciated Tibetan language learners, a very warm welcome to this guide! Have you ever wished you could say "I want to go to Tibet" or "She knows how to write in Tibetan very well"? If so, you are in the right place. Today, we are going to explore modal verbs, which in Tibetan are called བྱ་ཚིག་གཉིས་པ། or "secondary verbs" because they always follow the action verb. Grab a cup of tea, and as I often say, remember that review is the mother of learning!

What you'll learn

  • How to express ability and skills with ཐུབ་པ། and ཤེས་པ།
  • How to express desires and wishes with འདོད་པ།
  • How to express needs and obligations with དགོས་པ།
  • How to talk about experience with མྱོང་བ།

1. What are Modal Verbs?

In English, we call them "helping verbs". In Tibetan, they are secondary because they follow the main action verb, which remains in the infinitive while the modal verb itself gets conjugated.

Example:

ང་སྲྱུ་གུ་ཉོ་ དགོས་ (ཀྱིི་) འདུག

I need to buy a pen.

  • Action: ཉོ་བ། (to buy)
  • Modal: དགོས་པ། (to need)

2. The Tibetan Worldview: Non-Volitional Verbs

Here is a fascinating point: in "Tibet World," our wants, needs, and abilities are considered non-volitional (བྱེད་མེད་ལས་ཚིག་). Why? Because feelings like "wanting" or "needing" are seen as emotions arising from tendencies rather than intentional choices.

Important

Because they are non-volitional, you must use བདག་ (self) perspective auxiliaries (like བྱུང་། in the past) even when talking about your own desires.

3. Ability and Skill: ཐུབ་པ། vs ཤེས་པ།

ཐུབ་པ། (Thub-pa) — To be able to

This refers to physical, technical, or emotional ability.

Present:

ང་ཕྱག་འཚལ་ ཐུབ་ཀྱི་མེད།

I am unable to do prostrations.

Past:

མདང་དགོང་ང་ཚོགས་འདུ་ལ་ཡོང་ ཐུབ་མ་བྱུང་།

Last night, I could not come to the meeting.

ཤེས་པ། (Shey-pa) — To know how to

This refers specifically to having the knowledge or skill to do something.

Present:

ངས་བོད་སྐད་ ཤེས་ཀྱི་མེད།

I do not know [how to speak] Tibetan.

Future:

ཁྱེད་རང་གིས་འཁྱུག་ཡིག་ཀློག་ ཤེས་ཀྱི་རེད།

You will know how to read cursive script.

4. Desires and Wishes: འདོད་པ། (Dö-pa)

This verb means "to want to" or "would like to".

Grammar Quirk

འདོད་པ། has no future form. We use present auxiliaries for the future because the wish is happening now.

Present:

ང་བོད་ལ་འགྲོ་ འདོད་ཡོད།

I want to go to Tibet.

Past:

ཁ་སང་ང་ཁྲོམ་ལ་འགྲོ་ འདོད་བྱུང་།

Yesterday I wanted to go to the market.

5. Needs and Obligations: དགོས་པ། (Gö-pa)

This means "must," "have to," or "should".

Future:

སང་ཉིཎ་ང་ལས་ཀ་བྱེད་ དགོས་ (ཀྱི་) རེད།

Tomorrow I will have to work.

Past:

ཁ་སེ་ང་ཕྱི་ལོགས་ལ་སྒུག་ དགོས་བྱུང་།

Yesterday I had to wait outside.

Negative ("Should not"):

To say "should not," use རྒྱུ་ཡོད་མ་རེད།

སེམས་ཅན་ལ་གནོད་པ་སྐྱེལ་ རྒྱུ་ཡོད་མ་རེད།

One should not harm sentient beings.

6. Experience: མྱོང་བ། (Nyong-wa)

Used to ask if someone has "ever done X." Literally means "to experience".

Question:

ཁྱེད་རང་བོད་ལ་ཕེབས་ མྱོང་ངས།

Have you ever been to Tibet?

Answers:

འགྲོ་ མྱོང་།

Yes, I have.

འགྲོ་ མ་མྱོང་།

No, I haven't.

7. Common Mistakes to Avoid

Overusing ཐུབ་པ།

Don't use it to ask for permission like "Can I open the door?". Instead, use the conditional: ངས་སྒོ་ཕྱེ་ན་འགྲིག་གི་རེད་པེས།

Using པ་ཡིཎ།

Never use the volitional past auxiliary པ་ཡིཎ། with these verbs, as they are non-volitional. Use བྱུང་། for yourself.

The "Want X" Trap

འདོད་པ། is for "wanting to do X." If you just want an object (like "I want momos"), use དགོས། as a full verb: ང་ལ་མོག་མོག་དགོས།

8. Mini Tasks & Drills

Drill 1: Translate

"I know how to drive, but today I am unable to drive" (Hint: Use ཤེས་པ། then ཐུབ་པ།).

Drill 2: Fill in

ང་བོད་ཇ་འཐུང་ _____ (I want to drink Tibetan tea).

Drill 3: Past Tense

Change "I need to go" to "I had to go".

9. Frequently Asked Questions

Both དགོས་ཀྱི་ཡོད། and དགོས་ཡོད། are correct. The version with ཀྱི། treats it as a verb, while the shorter version treats "need" as a noun you "have".

Yes, but you use present auxiliaries (like ཡོད།) because the desire itself exists in the present moment.

No! The action verb preceding མྱོང་བ། is always in the present tense.

Use the special construction རྒྱུ་ཡོད་མ་རེད། or རྒྱུ་མི་འདུག.

The sources note that བྱེད་པ། becomes གནང་བ། and རྒྱག་པ། becomes སྐྱོཎ་པ།, but modal verbs themselves often use standard non-volitional endings.